Thursday, January 5, 2012

Classism in Haiti: An unfortunate reality... by Marjory Sheba

Classism in Haiti: An unfortunate reality
By Marjory Sheba

As a Haitian born and raised in Haiti, until the age of 9—like so many of my peers who live abroad—the culture is very much alive and well in me. I support Haitian programs, observe Haitian holidays, buy Haitian art and can appreciate the warm and ambitious spirit of the immigrant Haitian newcomer. And, when the terrible earthquake took place in 2010, I cried for days, was stricken with grief for months and did everything within my means to help.

But, as time passed and as I delved deeper into the core of the Haitian culture—its innate psychology, and essence—I began to develop a growing discomfort for the skim access and fragmented identity it offers me as a fully vested Haitian-American. Hence, I decided to shed all previous conceptions I had about what it means to be a Haitian and allow myself to truly analyze this inherited culture I had been taught to love, and assess it for it what it is.

To start, I had to revisit the definition of culture (in this case, n. the customary beliefs, traditions and material traits of a racial, religious, or social group) and the role it played in my upbringing. History teaches that many of our traditions today derive from a combination of recipes and rituals our ancestors brought with them from various tribes of Africa and the result of blood integration with the French and Spaniards during colonization. We are who we are today due to our past, and follow the ways of our fathers and mothers due to tradition and culture. But, what we pass on from one generation to the next can be completely bias and downright destructive to an otherwise flourishing and tolerant society.

Celebrative tradition and holiday observation aside, at the heart of the Haitian culture, lies an ugly stigma, perhaps more crippling to its progress than its own economic state, known as "Classism": The unapologetic dismissiveness and prejudice of the supposed elite, or higher class, towards those who are,  or perceived as being, in a lower social class. This polemical matter is so rampant in the country, it has become a norm; a way of life. For the educated and affluent Diaspora-Haitian, who like myself see themselves in the ranks of those in a more opportunistic position in Haiti, awaits a rude awakening:  the realization that we no longer fit in and are very much an outsider.

Spend some time in Haiti, after a long absence, and you might find yourself asking “What class of Haitians do I belong to?” There is a division line in every direction: The light-skin vs. the dark-skin, the rich vs. the poor, the educated vs. the illiterate and the Haitian vs. the Diaspora-Haitian. Yet, no one seems interested in mending the ties. One quickly begins to realize that the dream of a homely Haiti "Cherie" that we all share as Haitian-born citizens living outside of the country, may very much remain only as such: A dream; a figment of our hopeful imagination.

In my case, during a short visit in Haiti, while attending a private party put on by a member of the elite community, I observed a significant amount of prejudice to which I, also, fell prey. Of the 200 plus guests who were present, I could have accounted for only a handful of darker skin Haitians in the room, myself included; all awkwardly flocked in one corner or another. However, the servers and kitchen staff, or “bonne” as they call them, were all of darker skin. The greeting ladies and receptionists were all mulattos with the scarcest trace of black in them and although everyone present could speak and understand Kreyol, all of the conversations and presentations were conducted in French. Certainly, I held my own, but I couldn’t help but feel for those international  visiting Haitians in the room, whose fluency in Kreyol quickly made them an outcast. There was an imposing air of gross pretention that seemed to choke the very spirit of camaraderie that underlined the soiree.

The following day, I listened to a wealthy Haitian man in the group, darker than my tar father, tell his fair skin, young daughter not to speak Kreyol or mingle with “these people” as he pointed to a group of poor Haitian students who waited outside a building with her. She looked at her dad, with sadness and confusion. I watched this sort of imbalance play out in almost every place I went during my stay. At times more unbearably than others, as in when I heard a poor Haitian woman tell a light-skin ‘bourgeoise’ at the airport that it was not her place to stay at the end of a long line, although she had just arrived, and  urged her to go to the very front, which she did without hesitation. Complacency has long set-in and the dark-skin and poor, who are the majority, have further implicated themselves as the “lesser than” by their own ignorance and acceptance.

This experience left me distressed at a crossroad where losing my sense of identity with the culture I’ve claimed all my life, was the last thing I expected. For years, I considered myself a true child of the land and basked in all things Haitian, proud of the culture and loving the customs of its people. I kept quiet in the face of the Haitian Mulatto, who although my education and means might have surpassed, considered me unequal to him, due to my dark color. And the “Moun Lakay” whom I belonged to and felt most comfortable with, rejected me for being a product of the Diaspora. But, this time, I dared to question the answers. This time, I wanted to believe I can face the very evils that plague our people and see them for what they really are: “Scars of Slavery” (as aptly titled in a book by Dr. Rickter Mesadieu). All remnants of a time when we were taught to hate our sun-kissed, African bodies, coarse-curly hair and forget the language of our people. I have since met many who, much like me, have journeyed into that somber reality; but now offer it as the reason for their complete withdrawal from the Haitian community and discontinued practice of Haitian customs. They make a strong case, as to why they have fully immersed themselves and their children into their other shared American, Canadian and Caribbean cultures; an unfortunate reality for a country already suffering from substantial brain-drainage.

As for myself, I have chosen to hold on to the love I have for the beautiful land of Haiti and its distinguished history, but I will not succumb to the methodology and ideology of a culture infused with the old slave master’s classism mentality. I am an African-Haitian living in America, I've endured too much racism and prejudice in this land where I am viewed as a foreigner, to tolerate the same in my homeland. Haiti and all of its rich, natural resources is still a Black country; therefore it is because of that Black race of Haitian people and all their land has to offer that those who harness and harvest the millions they do from it, are able to. So, why despise the very people who help you rise? Instead of further enabling an absurd indifference, why don't we practice tolerance and acceptance for all? If Haiti is good enough of a land to profit from, then it should be good enough of a land to respect and care for, along with its people, language and culture.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

What's Happening to Our World? By Starseed Writer

For my first Reference Post, I have chosen to share with you this very enlightening passage by Starseed Writer; a spiritual mentor and medium living in the South Florida (US) area... Read it and know. -Marjory Sheba


What’s Happening to Our World?

By Starseed Writer


As UFO sightings increase and the stress of joblessness, downsizing workplaces, as well as a sinking economy continue to culminate, we often wonder: What is happening? How long can we stand this? Is there something or other life out there?

This a time of separation in which the human race will see more changes in consciousness. Believe it! We are becoming more and more concerned for each other. Believe in the goodness of the human heart and its potential growth. We will have to choose to be more trusting as God provides. We have to choose to realize that love is the only way. We have to choose to stay in a three dimensional reality or prepare to move to the fifth dimension reality we are being offered. Please know that if you are reading this- it is no accident! We are god. As the bible put it: “Ye are gods.” It is your free will and choice, everything you do!


The Galactic Federation of Light (GFL) Beings

We are all up for ascension to the 5th dimension where we can enjoy our higher self, or Holy Christ self. Understand the GFL (Galactic Federation of Light) are our older brothers from the Sirius star system; the Milky Way Galaxy and many others. They work with Archangels to build the Christ grid. It is a protective grid around the Earth that dark ET's cannot penetrate. The GFL are extraterrestrials (ETs) that are here to help move Earth to the fifth dimension. There are countless dimensions above that. There are two below us. The hot iron core of the Earth is the 1st dimension. The second dimension is between the first and where we are on the surface of Earth. [Read Alchemy of the Nine Dimensions by Barbara Clow Hand, a Native American medium who has stated to be from the Pleiadian galaxy].

We need not be afraid. Many sources who channel the hierarchy of ascended beings and angels say the same. The GFL have technology that could have destroyed us long ago. They don't force themselves on us. They have already made their presence known to the world governments. The governments are requested to announce the knowledge of their presence. Until this, they will not show themselves. This is referred to as “Disclosure”; the coming forth of the world’s governments in ‘disclosing’ the existence of GFLs. (We are hoping current US President Barack Obama will announce this during his term).


We Chose to be Here

The GFL have more power than other ETs that have come here before and experimented on our world. Those cannot come here anymore, as they had bad intentions. Light has gained the power and we are safe. Fear of the unknown is the greatest problem that is holding us back. We are currently living in the 3rd dimension. Here we are in an illusion in linear time and space. We chose to be a part of this experiment. We were in a world where we freely lived from our hearts in light and love. We had the power to teleport; create waterfalls; anything; beautiful homes and gardens etc. We had no need for food or sleep in our light bodies. We came into the lower density of this physical world to experience a physical body; emotions; sex; physical senses. We were the brave ones who left our world of paradise to help Earth awaken. We were sure we would wake up; remember our Divinity and find our way back.


The Earth and Our Vibration

Earth is a living entity; we and the plants and the animals are all one element and all the same. Our powers and memory returns when we live from our open hearts of love instead of from the head. This challenges us to love all the same, even and especially those who have hurt us. Physically put your hands on your heart and breathe to expand it. Your heart is a multidimensional chamber not just a blood pumper! Try to meditate on appreciation and gratitude. We change our vibration to match Earth's new ascending vibration when we keep our vibrations high by only living love. This is required for us to progress spiritually and remember who we are. The greatest commandment, as per Jesus, is to love. The Earth (Terra) has decided to ascend. Our galaxy and the universe is not static. It is dynamic. That means it is always changing. Those who cannot increase their vibration to higher levels will ultimately be choosing (by free will) to go to an alternate Earth in 3rd density or dimension. I have to tell you, I am looking forward to teleporting all over the world, backward and forward in time to see my loved ones.


A Shift in Consciousness

We have been told by the Galactics that the governments have been contacted by them and that the secret governments, Illuminati and dark cabals that enslave us know that their power has slipped and will continually to slip. Their time is up. They control the mainstream media. Consider the protests in Jerusalem with 1 million people in the streets, they have no jobs or homes and rent has gone up 45 percent. The rioting in England from the frustrated populace and youth who have no job or opportunity to come out of poverty, you do not see this on television. The queen recently cut back on financial aid for students to help pay the light bills for the palaces. This and the corruption exposed involving the tapping of cell phones of celebrities; crime victims and even 9/11 victims and the Prime Minister of England has led to the riots and looting all over England. The 29 year old Black man the police murdered in Birmingham, supposedly started the rioting. The newspapers in UK and the Wall Street Journal and stations and other news papers all over the world all belonged to Illuminati Rupert Murdock. Although he had to close some newspapers we are still under the media controlled illusion. No mainstream media is broadcasting any of this. I have not enough time to talk about Spain's peaceful 400 mile walk protest on this post.

But, there is a shift taking place, there are many rich such as prince William of England who says he wants to get rid of the monarchy in the UK. Also, millionaires in the U.S calling themselves “Concerned Patriotic Millionaires” are declaring that they want to pay their fair share of taxes.


What We Need Now

A lot of us are concerned about "jobs". We shouldn't have "jobs". The employers don't care about the workers. Their bottom line is all. We are all citizens of Earth. No one person has more right, more than anyone to "own" property. This is 3rd dimension reality. The movement of Earth from the place we were even a few months ago to this current location in space is affecting us all. People are experiencing a lot of physical as well as mental pain as our soul bodies evolve. These are ascension symptoms. Stress has been especially high in the last few months and will continue to increase. [You can read more about this on the website of Steve Beckow].

We need yoga; meditation and prayer. It doesn't matter your religion. All roads lead back to God. We are one with God. We imagined we were separated from Him and so we fell down the finite spout. We are Infinite Beings. You can manifest whatever you imagine and intend and hold in your mind. It will come to pass. You have power. Use it. There is nothing to fear but fear itself. God is good, we need not fear Him either. The law of attraction brings us back what we attract. Love, celebrate and please have fun! Laugh, dance and sing, this raises our vibration. Enjoy nature. Go to the high energy areas where there is a lake or sea or forest or park. Go out and look at the sky. The UFO sightings are promised to be increased.


Until next time, Love and Peace!

Starseed Writer,

Spiritual Teacher and Medium

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"Chasing the Vision, Not the Millions."

Greetings and welcome to my blog!

Perhaps you've visited me before on my website, http://www.marjorysheba.com/, my Facebook Page or read my book, Shebafied! A Poetic Journey to Self-Actualization, or perhaps you are just stumbling upon me online and reading this. Either way, I am happy to be connected with you here and believe, truly, that our encounter is no accident.

I am a Visionaire, a Visionaire for Life! A long time ago, I learned what it means to really "see beyond the now", to appreciate "life" and not let current circumstances define or hinder my growth or happiness. I began to discover the layers encapsulating the very, wonderful, secrets to living. And, one after another things began to fall in place. This human life is, indeed, an illusion; we are, indeed, spiritual beings having a bodily experience! Everything we believe and enVision we, ourselves, create and manifest!

As President of The Visionaires Club, a club I started several years ago in Central Florida (US) with now aspiring branches in various regions, I wanted to create an environment that would foster positive light sharing interests and spiritual growth. I wanted to help others to find and follow their vision. To meditate, to purge and to open up themselves to receive Love and Light. It's time we learned that true happiness is not experienced in numbers, but in moments of great insight. It's time we learned to "chase the vision, not the millions."

This blog will serve as a medium to guide and help those who want to uncover and tap into their life's vision, their "beyond the now". Here, I will recommend transformational books I've read that have helped me in my journey and share passages of great spiritual mentors, past and current, that have significantly deepened my spiritual understanding. And, from time to time, I will post messages, insights and profound, quotable expressions received through meditation and prayer.

Once again, welcome. I'm glad we've embarked on this spiritual journey together!

Love & Light!